Burt kept a close eye on Kurt and Blaine when they were in the house, he didn’t want his boy to have sexy just yet, after all he was still just a boy. Burt still sometimes saw Kurt as the young boy who needed to be taught how to ride a bike but he knew that he had grown up. For many years it had just been him and Kurt, he knew Kurt was gay before he even came out and he was worried about men taking advantage of his innocent boy. After witnessing Kurt grinding down against Blaine just a few days ago, it was clear that his innocent boy had grown up. He didn’t want Kurt to have sex with Blaine yet because he didn’t want Kurt to get hurt.
He sat at the kitchen table with his mug of coffee, tapping his finger along the side of it. He heard someone running down the stairs and head for the door, he wanted to talk to Kurt so he called out hoping that it was him.
“Kurt!”
Kurt came into the room whilst buttoning up the many buttons on his jacket. “Hi dad. Is everything okay?”
“Sit down kiddo.” Burt pointed to the chair opposite him and Kurt did as he was asked. “Have you and Blaine ever... you know, had sex?”
“Dad, I told you this already, no we haven’t. I’m not ready for it, honestly, I’m not. I love Blaine with all my heart but I’m just not there yet. I’m happy with doing what we do now, just lying naked together. It helps me get more comfortable with myself and my relationship.”
“Kurt, for most guys sex is, just, you know, this thing we always want to do. You know, its fun, feels great, but we're not really thinking too much about, you know, how it makes us feel on the inside, or, you know, how the other person feels about it.”
Kurt understood and nodded when Burt spoke, but he knew not all guys were like that, Blaine and he would care about the feelings to it. “Women are different?”
“Only because they get that its about something more than just the physical. You know, when you're intimate with somebody, in that way, you're exposing yourself, you know, you're never gonna be more vulnerable, and that scares the hell out of a lot of guys. Believe me, I can't tell you how many buddies I've got who have gotten way too deep with a girl who said she was cool with just hooking up.”
“But that's not going to happen to me, Dad.” Kurt said quietly, knowing that he and Blaine weren’t a hook up, they were in it together for as long as they could.
“No, its gonna be worse. Because its two guys. With two guys you got two people who think that sex is just sex. Its gonna be easier to come by. And once you start doing this stuff you're not going to want to stop. You just... you gotta know that it means something. You know, its doing something... to you, to your heart, to your self esteem, even though it feels like... you're just having fun.”
Kurt raised his eyebrows. “So you're saying I shouldn't have sex?”
“I think on your 30th birthday it is a great gift to yourself. Kurt, when you're ready, I want you to be able to... do everything. But when you're ready I want you to, use it as a way to connect to another person. Don't throw yourself around, like you don't matter. 'Cause you matter, Kurt.”
Kurt knew that he could use sex to connect to Blaine in a more intimate way but he did understand what his father was saying. He looked at his dad, unsure of what to say to it all. “Is that it?”
Burt nodded and smiled at his son. “That's it, for now. Can I make you some toast?”
Kurt shook his head and got up, heading towards the door so he could go out with his friends. He stopped in the doorway and looked back at his dad. “Thank you Dad.”
Burt didn’t expect the thanks and it made him smile. He got up and hugged his son tight. “You're welcome.”

Later that day, Kurt was on the phone to his boyfriend, Blaine, telling him about the conversation.
“So, your dad gave you the sex talk?” Blaine said to him.
“Yeah! He was saying how I shouldn’t throw myself around and just use it to connect to someone.” Kurt said, lying down on the bed, looking at the picture of him and Blaine on his bedside table. “But when we eventually get there, I’m going to use it to connect to you.”
“I’m going to use sex to connect to you too. I love the idea of being intimate with you and connecting with you in a new way.”
“Blaine, you’re such a sweetheart.”
“I’m your sweetheart.”
Kurt couldn’t help but grin insanely and had to bite his lip to stop him from giggling like a school girl. “You really are baby and you always will be.”
“Yes I will be. I love you so much.”
“I love you too.”
Kurt spent the rest of the evening talking to Blaine, all the way until bedtime. They were always reluctant to say goodnight to each other because they’d rather be together, but they knew that if they didn’t sleep then they would look terrible the next day, well Kurt thought that he would.
“I love you.” Kurt said before making a kiss sound down the phone.
“I love you too.” Blaine said it back and making a kiss sound back to his boyfriend.
“You hang up first.”
“No, you!”
“No, you!”
“You have to first baby.”
“I think you do.”
“Come on baby, you hang up first.” Kurt giggled.
“Let’s do it together.”
They hung up at the same time which made Kurt smile. He put his phone on the bedside table and got dressed into his pajamas, making sure that his hair was done before getting into bed. Once he was settled into bed, he snuggled down and got comfortable. The last thing he saw before falling asleep was the picture of him and Blaine. That night, he had sweet dreams about him and his beautiful boyfriend and their future together.